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Apr 18Liked by Kristi Koeter

For me, it's learning this kind of stuff is all normal, and human, it's just we don't always talk about it. Comparison is a natural thing for social animals to do, and it's basically unavoidable, so the key is to get smarter and more mindful about it, and whenever possible, wrapping it in a soft blanket of self-compassion.

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Yes. I read her post today where someone basically said comparison is evil and pointless. Hi The thing is comparison serves a valuable purpose in terms of survival and evolution. I just think in our crazy hustle culture, we’ve taken it to the extreme, and for many of us, it’s become quite toxic.

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Thanks for this reminder, Kristi! So great seeing you the other day :)

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All very true. The comparison trap is a slippery slope, especially online. Congrats on your LI badge. Happy your talent & hard work is rewarded.

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